For couples

Find overlap without revealing every answer.

You each answer privately on this device. Afterwards you'll only see the things you both said Yes or Maybe to. If either of you says No, it stays hidden, so nobody ever sees a one-sided No.

Private by design

Your answers never leave this device. There's no sign-up, and we never save or send your answers. Closing or refreshing the page wipes them. If you choose to email or print your matches, only the shared Yes and Maybe answers are included.

How it works

Partner 1 goes through the list and taps I'm finished, then hands the device over. Partner 2 does the same. For each activity, pick Yes, Maybe or No, and if you like, whether you'd give, receive or both. Your matches appear once you've both finished.

What gets revealed

Only matched interests: Yes/Yes, Yes/Maybe, Maybe/Yes and Maybe/Maybe. No answers remain private.

Partner 1 name

Partner 2 name

Now answering

Partner 1

Questions

Choose Yes, Maybe or No for each activity. Marking give, receive or both is optional.

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Shared results

Matches only

Nothing is shown until you've both finished, and one-sided No answers are never shown.

For therapists, sexologists and sex educators

Give your clients their own branded checklist

Use the Yes/No/Maybe Checklist with your clients under your own name. Couples answer privately, only what they both want is revealed, and nothing they answer is ever saved or sent to a server.

Your name, logo and colours, with your own link to share
Questions tailored to your practice: remove, reword or add your own
Your booking link on the results screen
Clients can email their shared matches to you before a session
Hosting and updates taken care of

Founding practitioners

$195 setup

First 3 months free, then $15/month. Limited to the first 10, in return for a short testimonial.

Standard

$295 setup

Then $15/month, or $150/year. Fully custom versions on your own domain from $495.